using tumblr as a young teen not only stunted me emotionally but sociopolitically. the herd mentality on here silences any sort of critical thinking and destroys your confidence in your own opinions, it discourages you from forming your own perspective of the world.
imagine going on an expensive restaurant date with xiumin and then xiumin sees his ex and he has to silently tell u from across the table that u guys need to leave and then u end up going to a chilis instead